Do you have a tendency to be competitive or do you not mind loosing? As much as I like to win, I do not think I am overly competitive with people. One Summer at college I enrolled in a class and by the first day I had a big crush on this guy. Rather than let him be a distraction we spent the Summer being competitive over who had better grades and test scores. Now that is what I call healthy competition!
However, I do prefer assignments, games and events where there is a clear winner.....take mini golf for example. You either get the ball in the hole or you don't. Now I must admit I might just double check the score if I loose, but I still can smile nonetheless.